The Portrait Appointment Guide

Arrive prepared. Leave with portraits worth keeping.

A simple guide to wardrobe, family preparation, session flow, and same-day portrait selection.

A guided fine-art portrait appointment with no sitting fee.

You will be photographed with full direction, review your portraits immediately after, and choose only what you love. Please arrive prepared to make your portrait selections the same day.

Formal couple portrait on blue background
Family portrait with red and black wardrobe on blue background
i.Dress in timeless solids.
ii.Bring one meaningful item.
iii.Arrive ready to be guided.
iv.Review images immediately after.
v.Choose what you love that day.
I.What to Wear

Dress so the portrait feels timeless.

Your clothing should support the portrait, not steal the room.

Solid colors, elegant textures, and coordinated palettes photograph best. The goal is not to look trendy. The goal is to look like the portrait could hang in your family for years without explaining what decade it came from.

Blue

Best colors for the blue hand-painted background

These palettes are designed to sit beautifully against a painterly blue set without feeling flat or overly matched.

Blue hand-painted portrait background

The actual blue set

This is the painterly blue background used for the portraits. Deep greens, navy, charcoal, cream, olive, burgundy, and red all separate beautifully from it.

Red is especially strong when you want one person or accent to pop.

Navy
Charcoal
Deep green
Burgundy
Cream
Camel
Chocolate brown
Taupe
Slate blue
Soft gold accents
Ivory with a dark layer
Red for a bold pop

Regal Classic

Navy, charcoal, cream, and gold. Formal without feeling stiff.

Bold Against Blue

Red, navy, ivory, chocolate, and gold. Rich, confident, memorable.

Warm Heirloom

Camel, chocolate, cream, burgundy, and deep green. Soft but substantial.

Soft Formal

Slate blue, ivory, taupe, charcoal, and pearl. Gentle and polished.

Darker colors are your friend.

Darker tones tend to refine the silhouette and create a more formal, flattering line. Think navy, charcoal, deep green, burgundy, chocolate, and black used intentionally. Avoid dressing everyone in solid black from head to toe. A better version is dark foundations with one or two softer accents.

Couple portrait showing jacket, tie and sage green wardrobe
Sage, navy, red accents and structured jackets against the blue background

For gentlemen

  • Navy or charcoal suit, sport coat, dress shirt, tie, pocket square, or turtleneck under a jacket.
  • A watch, cufflinks, class ring, military pin, book, hat, cane, or meaningful heirloom can add legacy and tradition.
  • Please empty pockets before the session. Phones, wallets, and keys have a gift for making a luxury portrait look like you are smuggling a granola bar.

For ladies

  • Long-sleeve dress, tailored blouse, silk, satin, velvet, knit, structured blazer, shawl, or wrap.
  • Jewelry should feel intentional and personal. Pearls, earrings, a necklace, bracelet, brooch, wedding ring, or heirloom piece are excellent.
  • Long sleeves are recommended if you prefer not to draw attention to your arms. They also create a more finished formal look.

Things to avoid

Club logos are welcome when they belong to the story. Other logos usually distract.

Non-club logosNeon colorsTiny stripesSmall checksLoud floralsAthletic shoesWrinkled clothingSmartwatches, unless intentional
II.Hair, Makeup and Family Prep

Arrive prepared, not stressed.

The camera sees details differently than the mirror.

Hair and makeup

  • Professional makeup, stronger glam, and a more dressed-up look are welcome. Studio flash can handle drama. Just bring powder or blotting sheets if you prefer less shine during review.
  • Bring lipstick, powder, blotting sheets, brush, comb, and a few hair pins.
  • Avoid brand-new hairstyles on session day. This is not the morning to let courage and scissors meet for the first time.

Family wardrobe

  • Coordinate. Do not match. Choose 3 to 4 colors total.
  • Lay every outfit on the bed together before the session. If one outfit feels wildly outside the family story, adjust that one first.
  • Steam or press clothing the night before. Wrinkles love flash. Flash does not love them back.

Preparing children

Tell them: “We are going to make a special family portrait. Julian will tell us where to stand and what to do. You do not have to be perfect. You just have to listen and have fun.”

  • Bring water, non-messy snacks, wipes, a brush, and a backup outfit for young children.
  • Avoid chocolate, bright candy, juice, or anything that stains hands, lips, or clothing.
  • Do not worry if children are not perfectly still. Some of the best portraits come from connection, not perfection.
  • For family favorites, Julian can also use face swaps from the best smiles to help create the strongest final family portrait.
III.Meaningful Details

Bring the piece with a story.

Consider a wedding ring, pearls, watch, family Bible, old photograph, military medal, grandfather's cane, anniversary gift, club jacket, favorite book, or heirloom jewelry. Bring the good jewelry, the meaningful watch, the family ring, the old photograph, or anything with a story. Please do not bring the entire attic. Julian is strong emotionally, but not physically.

Legacy

Watch, ring, medals, book, cane, or old photograph.

Romance

Pearls, wedding jewelry, anniversary pieces, or a small floral accent.

Family

Heirloom photo, family Bible, children’s keepsake, or generational object.

Couple portrait with olive suit and black dress
Couple portrait with red jacket against blue background
IV.Session Day Expectations

The appointment is fully guided.

First, we will complete any necessary paperwork and discuss who is being photographed. From there, Julian will begin with simple posing and lighting direction so everyone can settle in.

Depending on your group, we may photograph individual portraits, couple portraits, full family portraits, children only, mother and daughter, father and son, grandparents with grandchildren, siblings, generational portraits, and legacy portraits with heirlooms.

i.

Paperwork and quick plan

ii.

Guided posing and lighting

iii.

Family combinations

iv.

Immediate image review

v.

Selection and artwork options

V.Review and Selection

You will choose your favorites the same day.

After the session, we will review the images together while everything is still fresh. We will narrow the portraits down, discuss retouching included with purchases, and review options for digital files, prints, framed pieces, and artwork. Retouching begins with the small things that make a major difference, starting under the eyes to give you the best night's sleep of your life. The goal is simple: make you look your absolute best for your portrait.

You do not need to decide what to buy before the session. You only need to arrive prepared to choose after seeing the portraits.
Individual portrait30 to 45 minutes
Couple portrait40 to 80 minutes
Family portrait90 to 120 minutes

Simple, guided, and built around what you love.

Arrive prepared. Let Julian guide the posing, lighting, and expression. Then view your portraits the same day and select the pieces you want to keep.

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